The last few weeks have been crazy around here, what with three straight weeks of visitors at Crooked House (that’s my newly dubbed name for our place). I’m really freaking tired and now way behind on work; this weekend I will be consumed with catching up for the end of the semester.
The time, however, was ample and worth it — Family and friends, and especially my niece, CIA, running around and making everyone laugh and not be grouchy about anything in the world because she just laughs and usually isn’t grouchy about much, unless she’s tired or sick or something. Simplicity at its finest.
We went to Bryant Park and saw people ice skate and they lit up a Christmas tree from Quebec — Canadian Mounties posed with everyone by the tree. I find that we constantly stumble upon things in this city, there’s always something going on and just the volume of people makes everything seem much more majestic.
I find it hard to understand, but maybe I will in the future, that people don’t like New York. It may be overwhelming, scary, crowded, and at times impersonal, but that can go for just about anywhere, and elsewhere you don’t have the Promenade or the DUMBO waterfront to go to when you’re sick of Manhattan and just want to decompress. Next year, I will stay in on Black Friday, or most definitely will not go to Macy’s. I said to my mom, “It’s one of the biggest cities in the world on the busiest shopping day of the year.” I don’t know what I expected, but it was nice to get the hell out of there.
But back to reality as I drive to the airport once more tomorrow, the Belt Parkway, provided there’s less traffic than the 278, is actually an enjoyable drive — Through Bay Ridge, Coney Island, and an impeccable view of the Verrazano.
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This guy is younger than me, and to think that from now on, this will happen more and more often, is a little bit unsettling. But it’s okay. Have a good weekend.
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